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television. movies. shoddy magazines.

whatever your pleasure, people are famous because they are good looking, talented, or kris jenner is involved somehow. some have quiet feelings about a celebrity obsession while others have 'a **** list' where partners will allow a one-nighter.

my hands-down crush on jennifer aniston began in the 90s - when she was on this program that got cancelled called 'friends.' she's the one that got that haircut, a MUST HAVE. know her? when the show started i was an awkward 15 year old, with even more awkward feelings, and dreams of working at CVS pharmacy. next came movie deals like 'picture perfect', 'she's the one', etc.

i fell in love.

every so often you hear how celebutantes are raked over organic coals. never once have i ever heard anything negative about jenny. she's totally a great coworker, girlfriend, neighbor and checkers player (obviously.)

when i realized i was gay, my adoration didn't change at all. it must have been hellacious to divorce and fall out of love with brad pitt. i remember being devastated for us all: 'if brad and jen can't make it work, how the hell are the rest of us supposed to?' but she did it. graciously, and still ended up on top. (insert cliche 'object of my affection' reference.)

i came to the conclusion that i wanted to be a person just like her. a hard worker, funny, living LIFE, where looks shine through when you are happy. she's my heroine.

not drugs, idiot.

patrick's choice: stella.

like every other child, i was always fascinated with neighborhood bars on 80’s television. everyone was so pretty, continuously bubbly, partook in ‘just enough’ drama and all had fun social lives.

i quickly realized how these ‘worth-your-hard-earned-dollar’ neighborhood bars are few and even farTHER between. you can trust that i have done a lot of investigative work...

when i was introduced to stella at 1525 washington st., i was immediately attracted to the sassy space. it’s a legit cross between the south end’s version of ‘cheers’ and a celebration at southfork ranch on ‘dallas’. whether meeting up with friends or a stag sip o' sumpn' sumpn', you will find enjoyment at this restaurant. anddd you may even rub elbows with peeps like communications mogul, liz brunner.

the staff at stella is beyond pleasant and happy to help with your satiation. april, whose hair is almost as shiny as her disposition, always makes you feel like she personally invited you to her own party. please tell her i sent you and tip her well!

it's not only my favorite spot, but so many others'.

special acknowledgements: catherine, katherine, and alejandro.

anddd sunday brunch and #zonin #prosecco

mental health is the new black.

having grown up in a loving (albeit sheltered) household, my parents were able to teach my brothers and i good and evil. however, we were not socially exposed to how adults could potentially behave.

since college, my career has been within human resources. so trust me, i consider myself now-exposed to other people's problems. it's taught me to learn more about myself and i've gotten over the stigma that i once attached to 'seeing someone' (read mental health provider.)

during one of my appointments, i interrupted my own monologue with a 'how long have we been seeing each other?' when the response was '7 years', i nearly fell off the pleather couch. this relationship has afforded a safe place for me to live through breakups, horrible bosses, and the loss of my irreplaceable mom.

as we all see/read incomprehensible news headlines, i immediately realize that the onus is on ourselves to manage mental health (and for our dependents.) nobody is ever going to make you happy, only you will make yourself happy.

like, i want my first straight jacket to be prada.

so i don’t have a horse, but i have been fascinated with sunsets and cowboys (mostly the former) in this amazing life of mine.

i’ve created this as a vehicle to share, learn, and identify with others.



in the words of urban dictionary:

'ride off into the sunset': from a Western movie cliché, in which the good guy who has arrived in a troubled town and solved whatever grave problem it was experiencing with bad guys, gets on his horse and rides west in the direction of the picturesque setting sun.